Elder Stoney Harward

Tuesday, December 6, 2016

A GUATEMALAN THANKSGIVING! - THANKS FOSTER'S, TURNING TO THE LORD, & NURSING (don't ask)

Hola Mi Familia!

First off Mom, please do not worry about last week and not being able to email me. I am just really glad that I was able to talk to you for a little bit. It would have sucked if I couldn`t have even done that, but really don`t worry about it. I am glad you sent one this week though!!! They honestly help more than you could ever imagine with homesickness, so thank you.  It also helped to hear that Gunner is starting to feel better. It made me really happy to hear! He honestly scared me to death for a little bit there. But I am so glad he is feeling better. I hope he keeps heading that direction!  I`m glad that all the kids were able to finish off the trimester strong, especially after how much they all missed. That`s really cool.

As for how I`m feeling, everything is getting better. It was still pretty rough on Thursday because it was pretty hard not being there with you guys, and we were also in divisions on Thursday, so I was with a missionary that I don`t know too well, so it wasn`t the same as being with Foster, but it`s all good. We ate the Thanksgiving dinner that Foster’s family sent.  We ate on Friday night, and it was awesome! We had turkey, mashed potatoes, stuffing, and gravy, and then M&M`s for dessert. It was really cool. I`m glad that we were able to at least celebrate it in some way. On Wednesday morning we had pie, because I guess it`s a tradition in Foster’s family to have pie day the day before Thanksgiving, so we had some pies too. It was really cool. And don`t worry, I have pictures to send home that I will be sending soon today. Oh, and by the way. I really like that quote haha! I`ve felt that way a few times :)

"I'm in one of those moods where I just want to throw a book at someone's face and be like... "I just facebooked you!" :)

I`m glad that you guys were able to have a good Thanksgiving too. I really want to see that movie. Moana! I have only seen one trailer for it but it looks really good. Even though it`s the same thing every year it`s always nice to be there with family and just have fun together and chill. That`s one of the biggest things I missed this Thanksgiving, but it`s all good. 

I honestly already miss snow!!!! I can`t believe it, but I really do. It`s so weird to have it be December, and see no snow... at all. It hasn`t even dropped below like 60 degrees during the day! Mom, you would love the weather here, but I`m not too sure how you would like being here. It`s a pretty dirty place. At least in the city. It`s a cool experience, but I can`t wait to get out and go see the small villages that are like 6 hours away from where I am now. It will be awesome!

I`m so glad that Peighton is finally seeing her potential. She is such a good player and just needs to take the steps necesarry to get there. It might be scary at times, but that`s when we grow the most, is when we step right out of our comfort zone and go for it. If anything, that`s what being out here has done a whole lot of for me, is growing, these past 3 months. I can`t believe how much this matures and grows people out here. It`s really cool. But I am glad she could go to San Diego and play good. She always seems to be pretty hard on herself if she doesn`t play perfect, but I bet she did really good. I know it`s going to be hard to tell Aaron that she`s leaving again, but she`s tough. I`m glad they were able to do pretty good out there.

I`m really excited for the package! I can`t wait to have pictures of all of you. Every missionary has pictures of their family, and it`s cool to look at, so I can`t wait to see pictures! Haha I can`t wait for the tree!!! I can`t wait to read the notes you wrote for us! And don`t worry about the tape, because we have a ton in the house, so that`s all taken care of! I think we are going to try and find a real tree too somewhere to set up in the house. I don`t know where we will, but we are going to try! I think I should be getting it by like the 13th of December or a few days before, maybe. But sometime around then. I can`t wait!!!! As far as skyping goes, it will be on Christmas day, LESS THAN A MONTH!!!! I can`t wait! That will honestly be the best present I get ever, is being able to see and talk to you all. I honestly think it`s really cool to have my first Christmas here fall on a Sunday. That`s awesome to me! To remember why we really celebrate Christmas. I`m excited! Christmas, in Guatemala, is HUGE!!!! They go nuts for Christmas! Just 2 nights ago they had a firework show (weird right, fireworks for Christmas?) We were able to see them from the roof of our house, and they were nuts!!! Think of a grand finale for 4th of July, but have that last for about 25 minutes, and that`s what it was like. Don`t worry, I got pictures of those too and will be sending a few home :) But I guess it`s huge come Christmas night, the fireworks are all over the place, and it`s really cool because we are dead center in Xela, so there will be fireworks all over the place, all around us. It`ll be really cool, I`m excited!!!

Oh man... Paty, Paty, Paty. She is so ready... And yet, I don`t know what the deal is. Honestly, I just think the whole thing is is that she is waiting until Indira comes back from the States next week so that she can be there to see it. If that isn’t is then we don`t know what to do with her? We have taught her every lesson, multiple times, and now we just teach about certain questions she has. I mean for goodness sake, we taught her about transfiguration and she understood it all. She is amazing, she just needs to be baptized!!! It`s rough when they know it`s true and won’t “bite the bullet” to make the decision to be baptized. It`s hard sometimes, but it helps grow my patience.

With Indira and Edna, I`m not 100% sure what to do. They know it`s true too, but they don`t want to change their lives to live the gospel. That`s another hard thing. They know it`s true but are pretty much too lazy to try and change. We will see though. With God, anything is possible, right? New fechas? We found a new family 2 weeks ago with a mom and 3 kids who are all really positive, and we have a date with them Christmas Eve, so that will be really cool if we can follow through with them. The hardest thing with them seems like it will be trying to get them to go to church. But they are great. But that`s it for Fechas.

When I got my call here, everyone said that I was going to be having baptisms left and right, and teaching people always, but it´s the exact opposite. I don´t focus on baptisms, because I know that people choosing to be baptized is out of my control. But it gets hard sometimes. Especially when instead of teaching new people and baptizing our older investigators, we keep the same investigators for months, and they never get baptized. It´s hard, but I really do love teaching these people. The people we can get into to teach are amazing people who are so humbled. They are great, but then you get people who literally just slam the door in our faces, and that gets really hard sometimes too. I don´t know, I just got to keep working for it. That´s always the case, a day full of contacting, but no one seems to ever let us in to teach them. Our President always wants us having 60 new investigators every month, and he sometimes makes it seem so easy to just get into people´s houses to teach, but it´s really not. It´s hard and sometimes, it gets frustrating. But, I´m just trying to dig my head in and keep going. That´s the other weird thing.

Transfers are still the 27 of December, and we aren`t 100% sure what`s going to happen. It`s nearly impossible that we will be together again, but with the time that Foster has left in the mission, it could happen, at least that`s what we`ve been told by people, we will see though. And yes, it`s almost positive that I will stay here in Xela if we do have transfers, and honestly I`m ready, it`s just going to suck saying goodbye to him. He has been a great trainer, someone who has helped me with the language, homesickness, how to be a better teacher. He`s just been awesome, and it`s going to be hard to say bye to him. But ya, I`m ready. I will still be junior comp, most likely, unless I train, but I doubt that will happen, and I will show the older comp around the area here. It should be really good, and then I would be in Xela until February, and then I`m not sure what might happen then.

The ward here is great. There are a few people that I`m not a huge fan of, like the 2nd counselor and his wife. They got so mad at us for baptizing Brenda because "she lives outside of our area, and that is such a sin if you do." So they hate us, and honestly, I don`t have very strong feelings for them either. But for the most part they are awesome. There is a family called De Leon Castillo and they are amazing. They have 3 kids, a daughter who is 19, a son who is 14 and another son who is 7, and they are all amazing! I love them so much, and then the 1st counselor in the bishopric, Byron, and his wife are really awesome. And then Alex. He is a convert of 3 years, and just got home from serving a mission in Chile. We are teaching his girlfriend, Karem, who is going to be baptized on the 10th, and he is such an awesome guy! He speaks English and so that`s really cool, but he`s awesome! But ya, the ward is really cool. As far as callings go, I have none in the church. We have a pretty big ward, so they don`t need to give us callings, but there are areas where you could even be branch president, and that would just be nuts!!!!!

1.PEAK MOMENT:  Having Thanksgiving dinner because I was pretty homesick, and it was really cool to be able to at least somewhat celebrate it. It was awesome! I have pictgures that I`m going to send home.

2.PIT MOMENT:  Umm, probably not being home for Thanksgiving. It was pretty hard not being there for one of my favorite holidays with everybody.

3.WHAT ARE YOU READING:  I am reading in Alma 9 right now, and those first few chapters of Alma are about Alma the younger going around the land teaching people to come back to the commandments of God, because they are becoming prideful and forgetting their duty to God. They are amazing chapters with so much stuff in there that we can ask ourselves personally to see how we are in living this gospel. It`s awesome. I love it!

4. SOMETHING I LEARNED: It’s been the same every week I`ve been out here, to turn myself over to the Lord, and truly turn everything over to Him, He works miracles through us. He can strengthen our weaknesses and make our strengths even stronger.  I am reminded of this in Luke 1:37 – For with God nothing shall be impossible.

5.A PERSON WHO STOOD OUT TO YOU THIS WEEK: Probably my zone leader that I did divisions with this week. He finishes his mission in February and yet he still goes hard on the work, and I give him props because at that time in the mission, the last thing you want to be doing is working, but he`s still going strong, so that was cool.

6. FAVORIT SCRIPTURE: My favorite scripture of all time would be Ether 12:6 or Ether 12:27 but out of the ones I have read this past week it would be Alma 5:27

27) Have ye walked, keeping yourselves blameless before God? Could ye say, if ye were called to die at this time, within yourselves, that ye have been sufficiently humble?  That your garments have been cleansed and made white through the blood of Christ, who will come to redeem his people from their sins?

I just really like this scripture because if we ask ourselves this and we can answer yes, then that means we are living the way we should. It was just a cool question check that I really liked.

7. SOMEONE TO PRAY FOR: Pray for a girl named Michelle and her father. I haven`t talked much about her, but she is a 17-year old Girl who is best friends with Indira`s daughter, who is really interested in the gospel, but her dad hates us and forbids her from taking lessons, so we can`t do anything about it because she isn`t 18 yet. It`s really sad. So ask to have her father`s heart softened to at least allow her to take lessons.

8. SOMETHING WEIRD I SAW: A lady walking down the street and then she just pulled her shirt down and started breastfeeding her baby. It happens all the time, but I don`t think I will ever get used to it.

9.Pictures are coming, I promise!!!!!!!

I really like that quote, and it`s so true!!! I have come to love the scriptures so much while I`ve been out here, and if we just follow their teachings, we will be able to return with Him! They are amazing.

As you joyfully use the map your loving Father has provided for your journey, it will lead you to holy places and you will rise to your supernal potential.


I honestly miss the snow already!!! It´s pretty much December here, and during the days, it doesn´t drop below like 60 degrees. I love the weather, but I really miss the snow! I want to go skiing so bad right now!!!! Just shredding down the slopes sounds so good; 2 years and I will be there!! That´s cool that Gunner wants to go to Whistler for his senior trip. He is going to love it. I am so jealous I won´t be there to be able to go with you guys!!!!! Haha, Mom was telling me last week that she was already hating the cold and was doing her yearly threatening to either have you change jobs, or she was just going to move out and leave until Winter is over. I just don´t get how she can´t get used to the cold after living there for 8-9 years haha!

Ya, for the Halloween pictures I saw that you were growing a beird out. Is it pretty big? I definitely want to see some pictures!!! I really wish I could start growing a beird, because it´s getting to the point that I have to shave every day to keep it looking good. If I were to grow it out for a while, I bet it would come in pretty nice! But I have to wait 2 years for that too.

I´m glad to hear that Gunner is pretty much back to normal. The kid´s a fighter. Tougher than anyone thinks he is. Honestly, he is tougher than I think he thinks he is. But that makes me really happy to hear! So, Cassidey got another dog? How did she see it, or did you just find it and decide to buy it for her? How old is it? Is it big or smaller? With dogs on the brain, how is Koda? I honestly miss her so much!!!! Has she grown at all, or just pretty much stayed the same size? That´s awesome that Peity did good in San Diego!!! And even better that the team wants to keep her. She deserves to play on a team that will help her keep growing! Ya, I really hope Gunner makes the team this year. That would be so awesome! I just hate that I won’t be there to see him play. Haha it’s so funny to hear that Brody has started hitting puberty!! And even funnier is he thinks it´s so awesome that he finally grew some pubic hair!!!! Hahah but that´s how all boys are at first!

Also... HAPPY BIRTHDAY, DAD!!!!!!!!! I wish I could be there to tell you in person, but I hope you have a great day!!!! Go do something with the family tonight. I don´t know just go have fun! Whatever you do, I hope it´s great!!! Thanks for being the best dad in the world. For always being there for me no matter what I might need. Thank you for all the life lessons you have taught me in my life. You are my best friend, and I can´t wait to be back home and have you by my side again! Happy birthday dad!!!!!!!!!

I love you all so much!!!! I hope you have an amazing week!! I miss you and can`t wait to talk to you guys over Skype!!!! Love you!!

Elder Harward

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